Have you seen any “Day in the life” posts? I first came across them on Living Lighter in Atlanta, then later on other blogs. The idea is to write down what you do during the day as a parent – it’s a fairly raw post while also giving clear insight into what you do as a mom.
At first, reading one of those made me feel a bit like a voyeur … but I soon realized how fascinating those posts are! It’s half validation that my typical days (however boring they might feel) are just like others’ typical days. And the other half is just plain interesting – to read how others live and learn some new ideas and projects.
So, I had the idea to combine a Day in the Life post with a twist a la my favorite post, 2016 By the Numbers. Over the course of several days, I counted some things I feel like I do a lot. Voila a typical day around here – the good, the bad, the tiring….
28. The number of times I wash my hands on a typical day. I bet this would beat a surgeon’s count! This number includes when I used the toilet, helped Toddler at the toilet, changed Baby’s diaper, cooked meals, and cleaned up.
37. This is how often I said “no” to my kids. In one day!! Okay, I feel like a very bad mother after this … a very mean mother …. Is there any redemption?
64. Yes, there is redemption. Baby gets a lot of kisses every day … 64 on this count, in fact. I guess I’m not such a mean mother after all. (Right?)
9. The number of messes I cleaned up. This includes spills, food thrown by Baby during mealtime, and oregano spilled because I let my kids play with my spices. I’m actually surprised this total isn’t higher.
9. This is how often I said “stop” to my girls. I guess combined with “no,” this is a lot. I think I also say “hold on” a lot, but I didn’t end up counting that. Must be that I’m too busy cleaning up messes and washing everything and anything, so I need to say, “hold on” to them frequently.
27. I’ve said often before that I get up from the dining table a lot during meals. Do you think my food is warm or cold by the time I finish it? Am I the only mom who just can’t sit down through a meal??
6. This is the number of times I brush teeth every day. Mine, Baby’s, and Toddler’s get brushed twice daily. Is it any wonder my own dental hygiene is occasionally forgotten?
I could go on and on … 10 plates of food prepared, 6 cups of milk poured, etc. etc. Seeing my day distilled into pure numbers reinforces how repetitive some days feel …
… how mundane some days feel …
… how full of hand washing and cleaning some days feel….
If it weren’t for those 64 kisses and the uncounted ones for Toddler and my husband – and the uncounted hugs – I might want to throw in the towel! (Haha, get it?! I guess I still have my sense of humor!)
You forgot to mention how many times a day you give thanks for all those blessings! Or count how many people feel you have the world on a tied up ribbon! Mind you, not given, but earned by hard work, loving hands and a soul that is deep.
I count you and yours as a big blessing every day, held in my embrace of love, from a distance. Alas….
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Awww…. Yes, I do give thanks … I wonder how many times a day?? Probably not as often as I should!
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Great post! You already know I love counting things. 🙂
But this is next level!! How on earth did you keep track of these things?!
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Right?! The OCD (slightly) in me loves counting things, too.
I had to keep track of just one thing a day, else I’d go mad…. And it took me about two weeks because it’d be about 10:30 already and I’d think, “Crap! I was supposed to be counting something today!”
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I like these sorts of posts too, keep them coming! You could have a day where you do absolutely nothing, if you write it down well it can still be interesting to others xxx
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That’s very true! I guess that’s why reality TV is such a big hit, right?
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cute. Just the fact that you kept track of those numbers impressed me! 🙂
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Thanks! 🙂 It was a slow process, haha…
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Hahaaa!! You actually counted!!! It’s amazing that you can keep track. I’d lose count after 10. It’s a very creative post. As long as kisses are more than the no-s, I think ure good! 😊😊😊
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I had to keep track of one “thing” a day and write down the progress every few hours!
Good view, yes – the bucket was more full with positives, I think!
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😀 you are very resilient!
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That’s a lot of kisses! ❤ I should do this, but track the number of four-letter words that pass through my head throughout the day 😉
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LMAO! Wow, I should’ve included that one … I think I’m going to count it sometime next week just for sh*&s and giggles… 😀
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I look forward to it. I’m putting money on lucky number 13 😉
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Yes! Life does seem so mundane at times. Those kisses make it all worth it.
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Her squishiness and overall cuteness are honestly what keep me sane some days – no joke.
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Hahaha this is such a fun way to do a day in the life post! I’d never thought to count the number of little things like you did 🙂 awww so many kisses!! 💜 also I get up from the table so many times while eating haha, I’ve always forgotten something or run out of something I was eating!
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Thanks! I did have fun with it. 🙂 I got inspiration from your mom’s posts!
It’s hard to everything at once at a meal, I guess … we serve in courses, too, so that makes it worse, haha..
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